Tunhma chuan, pianpui finna (intelligence) nei tha te hi hlawhtling taka min nun tir thei tu pawimawh bera ngaih ani thin a. Pianpui finna nei tha te hian exam an ti tha a, mark an hmu tha a, degree an nei tha tlangpui. Zirna classroom chhungah na na na chuan heng mithiam ho te hi an hlawtling fo reng ani.
Amaherawh chu classroom chhung ni lo, kan nitin nun leh kan hnathawhna ah te hi chuan kan mark hmuh that ai mah in, mi rilru put-hmang kan va hriat thiam sakna leh kan tawmpui thiamna (emotional intelligence) kha hlawhtlin nan a lo tangkai zawk mah thin ani.
Goleman-a chuan kan nitin nunah leh kan hnathawhna hmuna kan hlawhtlinna chu 20% hi kan intelligence vang anih laiin, 80% hi kan emotional intelligence vang ani zawk, a ti ani. Mi intelligent tak chuan thil a thiam zung zung a, hna pawh a thiamin a thawk tha bawk ani thei, amaherawh chu emotional intelligence nei sang chuan mi rilru tur a dawn thiam a, an tawrhna te a hrethiam a, ama rilru pawh a in hriatthiam mai bakah a thunun thiam bawk a, chuvangin a thawhpui te nen pawh inkungkaihna tha tak a siam thiam a, an rilru a hriat thiam miau avangin hlim taka thawk ho turin a nunpui thiam bawk a, chu chuan nun hlawhtling a neih theih phah thin ani. Chuvangin, intelligence kan neih mai piah lama emotional intelligence sang tak kan neih bawk chuan mi hlawhtling tak kan ni dawn anih chu.
Thil lawmawm deuh pakhat chu kan pianpui finna (IQ) hi chu training te pe a han tih hmasawn vak ngaihna a awm lova, emotional intelligence erawh hi chu a zir theih a, a tih hmasawn theih ani. Nangmah leh midang rilru puthmang kha hriatthiam tum la, i rilru so bulh kha thunun zir la, mi rilru suk thlek kha hriatthiam pui tumin, ngaihthlak sak la, an tawrhna/hlimna kha tawmpui han tum chhin teh. Hetianga i tih theih chuan emotional intelligence i nei sang ani mai. Hriatthiam tum miah lo chu emotional intelligence nei tlem an ni mai!
Nang, Emotional Intelligence nei sang i inti em?
